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Aaron Ambrosier’s Story

For mountain area families coping with illness and loss, Mount Evans Home Health Care & Hospice is a blessed beacon of help, comfort and healing. It’s your light, loving spirit and generous heart that shines through Mount Evans and allows us to serve your neighbors when they are most vulnerable.

Night fell upon the Ambrosier family in September of 2015. Evergreen husband and father Aaron Ambrosier, 44, checked into Saint Anthony’s Hospital with headaches and vision problems. He was given a heartbreaking diagnosis.

Aaron Ambrosier
November 11, 1970 – February 12, 2017

“He had stage 3 glioblastoma, a brain tumor,” says Aaron’s father, Roger Ambrosier. “Early treatment helped, but it was incurable.”

The Ambrosiers knew of Mount Evans prior to Aaron’s diagnosis, but it wasn’t until Mount Evans’ physical and occupational therapists became frequent guests in their home; that they really came to know the devotion of our providers and how indispensable the services they provide are to families.

While the thought of losing his son was devastating, Roger could only imagine the pain and fear his 13-year-old granddaughter was feeling about the impending loss of her dad. Knowing he was out of his depth, Roger asked her to speak with a Mount Evans counselor. As any teen might, his granddaughter resisted the idea of sharing her most personal thoughts with a stranger and only reluctantly agreed to a trial meeting.

“At the end of the hour she came out and said ‘Grandpa, this is a woman I can talk to about anything.’ That’s a powerful statement for a teenager to say about an adult.”

In October of 2016, Aaron entered hospice. Caught between personal tragedy and a bewildering maze of forms and procedures, Roger put himself in the compassionate and capable hands of a professional Mount Evans social worker.

“Every time I asked her what I needed to do she said ‘We’ll take care of everything,’” recalls Roger. And that social worker did take care of everything, allowing the Ambrosiers to focus their attention on making every moment count of their final days together as a complete family.

SACRED SILENCE, by Roger Ambrosier “I began painting ‘Sacred Silence’ about a
month before my 46-year-old son Aaron’s
death from brain cancer. I have read that
‘the sky is the soul of all landscapes,’ and
that was the basis for this painting. The
threatening storm clouds appear and have an
immediate effect on our lives. As the clouds
continue to move and change, they develop
into a metaphor for how we experience our
own changes.
We trust that the light will return after the
storm, and this gives us peace, comfort,
hope, and joy.”

Aaron Ambrosier died on Feb. 12, 2017, in the company of his loving family and a dedicated Mount Evans hospice nurse. Aaron’s courageous fight against cancer was over and he was at peace. However, the raw, unimaginable grief his family was experiencing, would take a long time to heal. Roger and his wife, Jeanne, joined a bereavement group reserved for parents who’ve lost a child.

“It was tough, really tough,” Roger says, “but at the end of an hour and a half there was a bond between the members of that group that will last forever and ever.”

As Aaron Ambrosier and his family faced one of their greatest challenges, they weren’t alone because Mount Evans isn’t alone. You stand with us through your support in providing the comfort and care that your neighbors need during challenging times.

Your generous financial commitment to Mount Evans Home Health Care & Hospice will shine all across our four-county service area, making possible necessary services such as healing therapies, symptom management and grief counseling. With your tax-deductible donation to the mountain area’s sole community-based provider of home-health and hospice care, you’ll be helping the 20 percent of your neighbors who face an incredible challenge or anticipated loss with insufficient insurance, or none at all, who will be assured comfort and the highest quality care regardless of their ability to pay.

“I read that the nature of grace is the ability to fill up empty spaces,” Roger smiles. “Over the last two years the grace of Mount Evans has filled so many empty spaces in our family’s life.

“They took us at the lowest point of our lives and brought us to a point where we can walk in the sunlight now.”

Thank you for making the grace of Mount Evans possible. We know that you have choices and we are grateful that you’ve chosen to support us as we support our mountain communities. You make our mission possible. Please click the button below to  make a gift online.  Click here to learn more about our participation in Colorado Gives Day.

To listen to Roger Ambrosier tell his story in his own words, please watch the video below.